Have you ever felt stuck in a rut, unable to move forward and reach your goals? Or perhaps you’ve set a goal for yourself, only to find yourself constantly procrastinating or self-sabotaging your success. The truth is, our decision-making is heavily influenced by unconscious patterns and goals that we may not even be aware of. In his book “Destiny of Choice,” Nitin delves deep into the complex relationship between our conscious and unconscious minds and how it shapes our decisions and, ultimately, our lives.
In this blog post, we’ll explore unconscious patterns and goals and how they affect our decision-making. We’ll also discuss techniques for recognising and overcoming these unconscious patterns and goals so that you can control your destiny and achieve the success you desire.
Defining Unconscious Patterns and Goals:
But what exactly are unconscious patterns and goals?
Unconscious patterns refer to the automatic or repetitive behaviours we engage in without thinking about them. For example, if you always procrastinate on certain tasks, that’s an unconscious pattern. On the other hand, unconscious goals refer to the underlying desires or motivations that drive our behaviour. For example, if you find yourself constantly seeking validation from others, that’s an unconscious goal.
It’s important to note that there’s a difference between conscious and unconscious goals. Conscious goals are the ones we set with awareness and intention, such as wanting to lose weight or start a business. Unconscious goals, on the other hand, are the ones that drive our behaviour without us even realising it. These can be things like wanting to be in control or feeling safe.
How Unconscious Patterns and Goals Affect Decision-Making:
Now, you may wonder, how do these unconscious patterns and goals affect our decision-making? When our conscious goals align with our unconscious goals, we tend to make decisions that lead us towards our desired outcome. However, when our conscious goals contradict our unconscious goals, we may find ourselves in a state of internal conflict and inaction.
In the book, Nitin explains the concept of “sync” between conscious and unconscious goals. When our conscious and unconscious goals are in sync, we naturally and consistently behave in ways that lead us towards our desired outcome. For example, if you consciously decide to exercise at 6 am, you’ll naturally and consistently sleep on time and wake up feeling fresh and motivated to exercise. However, when there’s a disconnect between our conscious and unconscious goals, we may procrastinate or even sabotage our success.
Recognising and Overcoming Unconscious Patterns and Goals:
So, how do we recognise and overcome our unconscious patterns and goals?
- Firstly, it’s important to be aware of the automatic behaviours or thoughts we engage in regularly. For example, do you find yourself constantly seeking validation from others? Or maybe you notice that you’re always procrastinating on certain tasks. These behaviours or thoughts can give us clues into our underlying unconscious goals.
- Once we’ve identified these unconscious patterns and goals, we can work on overcoming them. One technique Nitin suggests in the book is challenging the thoughts and behaviours that are holding us back. For example, if you find yourself constantly seeking validation from others, you can challenge that thought by asking yourself, “Do I really need validation from others to feel good about myself?”
- Another technique is to prioritise our goals. When we have multiple goals that may not contradict each other, their fulfilment may depend on similar resources which we may have limited access to. This could create a conflict that may lead to a state of inaction as the unconscious does not have a clear direction to resolve this conflict. By prioritising one goal over the other, we can give the unconscious a clear direction and a mechanism to resolve this conflict.
- Another way to overcome unconscious patterns and goals is by exploring the root cause of these patterns and goals. Often, these patterns and goals stem from past experiences and beliefs that we have internalised. By understanding the root cause, we can work on changing our beliefs and reprogramming our minds to align with our conscious goals.
It’s also important to note that these unconscious patterns and goals can change over time. As we work on overcoming them and aligning our conscious and unconscious goals, we may also find that our behaviour and decisions change.
Conclusion:
Understanding the role of unconscious patterns and goals in decision-making is crucial in taking control of our lives and achieving our desired outcomes. By recognising and overcoming these unconscious patterns and goals, we can align our conscious and unconscious goals and live a life in sync with our true desires. Nitin’s book “Destiny of Choice” provides an in-depth understanding of this topic and offers practical techniques for recognising and overcoming these patterns and goals.
In conclusion, the book “Destiny of Choice” is a great read for anyone looking to take control of their destiny. It offers insights and techniques for understanding and overcoming unconscious patterns and goals and aligning our conscious and unconscious goals. This book empowers readers to make decisions that align with their true desires and, ultimately, live fulfilling lives.
But don’t just take our word for it. Pick up a copy of “Destiny of Choice” by Nitin today and start taking control of your destiny. Start recognising and overcoming your unconscious patterns and goals and aligning your conscious and unconscious goals. Start living a life that is in sync with your true desires. Don’t wait. The power to change your life is in your hands.